He said he loves only me, and he wants me to trust him again. My problem is, after all his secrecy, lies and defensiveness, I can’t do that.

He hasn't gotten a haircut in more than two years, and he's no longer interested in staying fit. I blame the girlfriend.

Our 23-year-old son, "Ed," was clean-cut, into working out and staying healthy, watched his diet — he even joined a gym and ...